Wondering which kimono to choose when attending a wedding? Many guests aren't sure where to start.
The right kimono for a wedding depends on your relationship to the bride and groom and your role at the ceremony.
Here's a guide to the kimono we recommend for parents, relatives, friends, and colleagues.
Attending as a Parent
For the mother of the bride or groom, kurotomesode (black formal kimono) is the standard choice.
It's especially reassuring to choose kurotomesode for a formal hotel wedding or reception.
For fathers, montsuki haori hakama is the formal equivalent.
Attending as a Relative
For relatives such as sisters, aunts, or cousins, irotomesode or houmongi are typically chosen.
Unmarried women may also enjoy a colorful furisode.
As a relative, aiming for a slightly more formal look than friend guests helps create an elegant impression.
Attending as a Friend
Houmongi is the classic choice for friends attending a wedding.
Choosing an elegant yet refined color and pattern makes for attire befitting such a special day.
Unmarried women may also choose to wear a furisode.
That said, if the bride is wearing traditional Japanese dress, it's important to balance the overall look by avoiding colors or patterns that would outshine her.
Attending a Colleague's Wedding
For weddings with coworkers — bosses, colleagues, or subordinates — houmongi is recommended.
Choosing a refined, understated color and pattern creates a polished impression.
Dressing appropriately for your role lets you enjoy an elegant wedding style.
If You're Unsure Which Kimono to Choose
When attending a wedding in kimono, start by considering your relationship to the couple and your role.
If you're not sure which kimono suits you, browsing different types, colors, and patterns will help you find a piece you'll love.
For Wedding Kimono Rental in Harajuku, Omotesando & Shibuya
At HARAJUKU KIMONO HOUSE, we offer a wide range of kimono suitable for wedding guests, including tomesode, irotomesode, houmongi, and furisode.
Beyond kimono rental, we also offer dressing, hair styling, and makeup, all in one place.
We also accommodate early-morning appointments to match your wedding's start time.
If you're looking for wedding kimono rental in Harajuku, Omotesando, or Shibuya, please feel free to reach out.
We'll help you find an elegant look suited to this important day. 👘
Reservations and inquiries are available through our website booking form or official LINE.